Dolly Parton shared a rare insight into her 60-year relationship with husband Carl Dean just a few months before his passing.
Parton, 79, confirmed on Monday evening (March 3) that sheâs mourning the loss of her beloved husband, who died in Nashville, Tennessee. He was 82. Dean, who kept his life private over the decades as Parton became a globally-beloved star, will be laid to rest in a private ceremony with immediate family in attendance, per Partonâs statement.
Just a few months before losing her husband, Parton spoke about the coupleâs love story with Bunnie Xo on an episode of Dumb Blonde, a podcast named with inspiration from the âI Will Always Love Youâ singer. Parton said in the podcast episode that made its debut in December a boyfriend was âthe last thingâ on her mind when she moved to Nashville to pursue her dreams of becoming a country artist.
âI left two boyfriends back home that had wanted to marry me, and I kept saying, âno, Iâm gonna move to Nashville.â âŠI thought, âwell, the last thing I want is a boyfriend.â Iâm leaving two boyfriends here, and I kept saying âno, Iâm going to Nashville,ââ the East Tennessee-born singer-songwriter said. âAnd so, I got here, and I thought, âthatâs the last thing Iâm gonna get caught up with some boy,â you know, until I get my feet on the ground (and) get things going. And the very day I got to Nashville, I met Carl Dean. And 60 years later, Iâm still with Carl Dean. Weâve been together 60 years, weâve been married 58.â
Parton and Dean met outside the Wishy Washy Laundromat in Nashville. They got married in a âsimpleâ and âprivateâ Georgia wedding on May 30, 1966.
âHeâs a good guy. Heâs quiet and Iâm loud. Weâre funny â oh, heâs hilarious â and I think one of the things thatâs made it last so long through the years, we love each other. We respect each other. But we have a lot of fun,â Parton continued on Dumb Blonde. âAny time things get too â too much tension going on, either one of us can find a joke about it to where itâll break the tension. âŠWe never fought back and forth. And Iâm glad now that we never did because once you start that, that becomes a lifetime thing. Iâve seen it in so many people. And I thought, âI will never start that.â I couldnât bear to think that heâd say something I couldnât take. It would hurt because Iâm a very sensitive person, toward other people and myself.â
Bunnie Xo asked Parton whatâs the most important, yet overlooked, aspect of her years-long relationship with her husband?
âHe was a homebody, and that worked well for us. âŠHe loved to go places if we were gonna drive across the country or if we had planned anything, but boy, he never could wait to get home. He wanted to be around home, and Iâm a gypsy by nature. I just love to go and love to see what else is out there,â Parton said. âHe loves music, but heâs not the least bit interested in being in it. he told me that right up front. I begged him to go with me in â67, we got married in â66, so thatâs when I got my first award for BMI Song of the Year. And I rented him a tux and begged him to go, and we did. Oh, he was so uncomfortable. âŠHe said, âlook, now I want you to do everything you want to do, and I wish you the best. But donât ever ask me to go to another one of these damn things because I ainât going.â And he never did! So, we just kind of have that respect, and I respected that because I didnât know he was going to be that uneasy. But he doesnât even like to go out to big dinners and anything like that. So, even on anniversaries and stuff like that, we really stay home and make something specialâŠor go to McDonaldâs, or go somewhere we want to go thatâs comfortable. We will go to Mexican restaurants. He will go in, sit in a booth and do that. He loves that. âŠBut anyway, heâs just special to me, and I just love him like he is.
âHeâs good. Everybody loves Carl.â
Though Parton shared some heartfelt insights into her decades-long relationship with Dean, she still opted to respect his privacy. When asked whether thereâs anything the world doesnât already know about her husband, Parton said, âhe donât want me to tell the world nothinâ about Carl.â Find the full podcast here.
âCarl and I spent many wonderful years together,â Parton said in a statement when she announced her husbandâs passing on Monday evening. âWords canât do justice to the love we shared for over 60 years. Thank you for your prayers and sympathy.â